Saturday, April 4, 2009

10 Tips to negotite a better deal!!

Some people were born to haggle, negotiate, cajole, whatever you call it. The rest of us need some guidance. Here are 10 great negotiating tactics to use next time you want to get more for less.

10. Start with the 15-to-20-percent rule
This one's for the shier, more nervous negotiators, the types who don't like to cause a big hassle to save some money—like, say, at least two of your Lifehacker editors. If you're unsure where to start knocking around prices, try starting with 15 to 20 percent less than your absolute top spending limit, as suggested by the Today show. It's basically marching up to the mark-up the seller is probably putting on the product you're trying to get, and moving incrementally down from there. Real simple, but you gotta start somewhere, right?

9. Ace your performance review, get a raise
Jump into that yearly chat blind, and you're likely to leave your supervisor thinking you're just a little better at FreeCell than he or she is. But if you've been quietly, easily building an accomplishments file, you've at least go something to talk about for more than five minutes. And if you know what they're looking for, your only job is to sell what you did, what you want to do, and how much it's worth to your company to do it for another year. Sounds simple? Unless you make it more complicated, it really is.

8. Know the salary you can really get
In a few rare cases, a salary is a stone-solid, non-negotiable marker. In most every job, though, it's up to you to explain your experience, know what your peers are getting, and defend your salary requirements. In our guide to knowing what salary to ask for, we suggested search sites like Glassdoor.com, PayScale, Indeed, and others. If you've got to shoot from the hip, aim higher than what you think you'll get, or aim really high and allow yourself to get knocked down—but only if you don't absolutely need that job.

7. Lower your credit card interest rate with junk mail
Seriously, all those pre-approved, APY-filled envelopes have to be good for something, right? Trent at The Simple Dollar blog suggests compiling them as part of a step-by-step guide to reducing credit card interest. Along with scoping out the offers on your card issuer's site, you arm yourself with a variety of competing rates you could easily get, get into the right frame of mind, and then call and force your way onto the phone with someone who can actually change things. Trent's post details the battle preparation in detail.

6. Just ask
Jason isn't afraid to reduce his bills by simply asking, and you shouldn't be either. It's not force of will or elegant pricing analysis you need to start chipping away at your bills. You're speaking to someone who wears a headset all day and hears almost nothing but complaints, so it's all about making yourself look good and getting on their good side. Soft-spoken curiosity about pricing, a congenial conveyance of brand loyalty, and being willing to move off what you think you want—say, lower premiums for your new car—and onto something you hadn't considered—"good driver" discounts, or savings for taking a safety course—can work wonders.

5. Keep quiet to press your point
Most of us are conditioned to avoid uncomfortable silences in conversations—that's part of the reason they design elevators to get you to your floor wihout a need for conversing (seriously they really do). But when you're angling for a lower price, a better payment, or some actual customer service, keeping quiet can speak volumes. A strategic silence can force your counterpart into action. If things get heated, silence can also keep you calm while playing with the yeller's mind. Either way, you've just won the battle of temperaments, and you're on your way to winning whatever war you're in.

4. Don't pay sticker price for your gadgets
It's easy to think of electronics stores as automated, margin-fixed resellers of whatever SonyAppleMicroSamsuVox want you to pay for. But that's not the case—not even at Best Buy—as every retailer has to make quotas, and you can help them decide to make you part of thier equation. Start by using internet print-outs to back up your stance on lower prices. Know the features you want, and do some research on the "value-added" services most shops will try to tack on, as recommended by HD Guru. If you're really hungry for an item, so hungry you'd risk not being a salesman's BFF, you could use a little protection plan switcheroo—although many of our commenters find it a bit troubling, and might suggest a more straight-forward tactic of leveraging a protection plan against what you really want to pay.

3. Buy at the right time
Eighty percent of success, the comedian once said, was just showing up. Get deep into the last 20 percent by showing up at the right time. SmartMoney's multi-market guide suggests buying airline tickets on a Wednesday, around 21 days before a flight, hitting the mall for clothes on a Thursday night, six to eight weeks after a new fashion roll-out, and wedding dresses, believe it or not, between Thanksgiving and Christmas. Our commenters have a few other suggestions on perfectly timed deals, too, well worth the scroll-down.

2. Walk into a car dealership with no fear
Rob Gruhl is the guy friends call from the dealership (literally) when they need buying advice. His presentation on car buying explains the basic and advanced jujitsu of bare-knuckled negotiating on your wheels. He says to give yourself plenty of time, get your own financing, never trade your old car into the dealer, get the "drive it off the lot" price rather than deal with a multitude of rebates and financing offers, and don't buy extras—not yet, anyways.

1. Write a letter to reduce your rent
Real estate prices are dropping, rents are going with them, and yet your landlord is hitting you up for an increased rate. You don't have to take that. The Wall Street Journal, in a feature on how to reduce your rent, prints a firm-but-not-smug form letter (which we reprinted in our post) that explains in detail why you deserve to stick to your current rate: You've been a good payer, you have a better credit history than the newer tenants next door (hopefully), and it would really stink if someone had to find a new tenant right now (said without any kind of Mafioso inflection). Why do all the passive-aggressive lifting when the WSJ and its rent-savvy writers have done it for you?

Stop being Bossy!!

1) Let go of perfectionism. Sometimes we're bossy because we want things done right, and there's nothing wrong with striving for a job well done, is there? The thing is, there's more than one way to achieve a good result, and just because your way is the most efficient way to get from Point A to Point B doesn't mean it's the best way. By assuming your way is the best way, you lock out the creativity of others, and you also chip away at morale. Both of these things are limiting factors in the long run, and that's not a good result.

2) Be patient. When you're used to being in the role of leader (or dictator or tyrant, in the eyes of others) it can be excruciating to step aside and wait for someone else to step up, and even more torturous to watch them fumble at a task that you can accomplish so quickly and easily. But what's the rush? Will it really be the end of the world if things don't go as smoothly as planned? Relax. Take a deep breath. Wait.

3) Invest in people. Many bossy people focus their attention on incompetence, and they fail to notice potential and progress. Try to be more alert to people's individual talents. Give positive feedback. Lots of it. Don't just see people as tools, as a means to an end, as machines. In order for people to think for themselves, they need to learn, and in order to learn, sometimes we need to make mistakes. Trust them, and give them a fair margin of error. Let them know that you're there to help, but don't watch over their shoulders or take over their tasks.

4) Improve your communication skills. Many times it's not what you say that comes off as bossy, it's how you say it. Your tone and phrasing can make a person feel like an incompetent cog in a machine, or it can make them feel like you're inviting them to reach a worthwhile goal with you. Learn How to Practice Nonviolent Communication and How to Give a Feedback Sandwich.

5) Strive for consensus. Nothing fosters team-building like consensus-building. Even though it's more time-consuming than democratic voting (i.e. majority rules), the consensus process is more likely to result in all parties reaching common ground. You can be a facilitator, ensuring that everyone's opinion is heard, and that a decision is made that is satisfactory to everyone involved.

6) Ask for honest feedback. Explain to people that you know you can come off as bossy or domineering sometimes, and you'd like to change your style. Ask them to let you know when you're coming off as bossy, whether by pulling you aside, or even by sending you an anonymous note or e-mail. Be humble and request their help.

Being bossy does not necessarily make you a good boss. Following the steps in How to Be a Good Boss does.